Just when...

... you think your life is horrible and no good could possibly come from the torcher you have endured... something happens... a silver lining is there! Just when you think there is no one who understands, a stranger smiles at you, a child touches your hand, the phone rings and it's a friendly voice, or maybe it's just a tender moment where the sunshine hits the window just right and there's a rainbow. Sometimes enduring the hard things can be so unbearable that you think, why me? WHY ME? WHY! Just when you think these things are too much to handle, and you question it again, WHY ME,  you may discover the answer by looking at it from a different point of view. There's always going to be those "why me" days, there's always going to be those horrible-no-good-very-bad days, but those are the times we must just take a moment, take in a deep breath and think, there is good within all this craziness. The good might just end up being, "I'll look back and laugh" or it's a moment that changes your path forever. All good comes, just find it... find the good. Strive for the good. It's there, keep looking, it's there. You only have one life to live and you mine as well live it the best you can and be happy. Life is too short to sweat the small stuff, worry about the dust bunnies or hold that grudge... it's not worth it. With that being said, certain things occur that make you realize that people come in and out of our lives for a reason... sometimes it may seem bad but every person you meet has that "good" that they bring to your life... find it... and thank them for helping you find that good, even it was them helping you find strength within yourself.